Momma's got a brand new blog

Momma's got a brand new blog

Thursday, 21 July 2011

Taking my eye off the boy

I am suddenly panicking.  I promise you, in the past three days, our little baby has changed into a bigger baby.  We have been on holiday in Canada for the past two weeks, touring family, landmarks and various events.  In all the excitement, I've stopped paying attention.  I realised today that my little one can grasp my neck while I'm holding him.  He's started to do all the annoying things that I used to loathe about toddlers - grabbing hair, throwing toys on the floor, and crying when you set him down. 

I feel the fear.  I'm getting a glimpse of the future.  I've lost my little fashion item, who was content to eat, sleep and stare, and have replaced him with a child who seems to already have a mind of his own.  Today, in the afternoon, I realised:  maybe it's true what nearly every experienced parent has already told me.  They Grow Up Too Fast.  I've ignored that cautionary message until now. 

But what can I do about it?  How do I stop the wretched flow of time?  And what will I do if I don't like the little boy who emerges at the end of this growth phase? 

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